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Sir Cliff sharing life with ex-priest






Sir Cliff sharing life with ex-priest

Sir Cliff Richard has used his autobiography to reveal details about his close friendship with a former Roman Catholic priest.

In his book, titled My Life, My Way, the 67-year-old former pop idol describes Father John McElynn as his "companion".

Sir Cliff, whose sexuality has long been the subject of speculation, met the American former missionary while visiting New York in 2001.

Not long after, McElynn took a sabbatical.

"He hadn't had any thought at the beginning of giving up the priesthood, but when it became clear he was thinking of the possibility, I suggested he might help me with some charitable projects," Sir Cliff's book says, according to extracts published in the Daily Express newspaper.

"That was seven years ago and our arrangement has worked out really well.

"John now spends most of his time looking after my properties, which means I don't have to.

"John and I have over time struck up a close friendship.

"He has also become a companion, which is great because I don't like living alone, even now."

On the years of speculation about his sexuality, Sir Cliff says he is "sick to death" about it but expresses his support for same-sex relationships.

"What business is it of anyone else's what any of us are as individuals," he writes.

"I don't think my fans would care either way.

"Same-sex marriages are perhaps a modern example of how things have changed. I think the church must come round and see people as they are now.

"Gone are the days when we assumed loving relationships would be solely between men and women.

"In the end, I believe, people are going to be judged for what they are.

"It seems to me that commitment is the issue, and if anyone comes to me and says: `This is my partner, we are committed to each other' then I don't care what their sexuality is.

"I'm not going to judge, I'll leave that to God."

Sir Cliff also says while he has twice considered getting married - to dancer Jackie Irving and tennis player Sue Barker - he has no current plans to tie the knot.

"People often make the mistake of thinking that only marriage equals happiness," his book says.

"I may suddenly meet someone and feel differently, but right now I am not sure marriage would enhance my happiness."

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I agree with Tom .Read Leviticus Chapter 20 verse 13 and Romans Chapter 1 verse27. And I have read them. If he is a real Christian and following and living by the Bible then he knows this and reads this and knows it to be wrong.
Lily (17/09/2008 2:28:43 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Isn't sir cliff a tad old for a priest to love him??? I thought he would have to be a younger boy..
thunder god (10/09/2008 9:35:43 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Good on him!
Butterbean (10/09/2008 9:21:23 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I've always thought that Sir Cliff Richards was a pillow biter.
A.Pathy (10/09/2008 12:26:57 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
He's a boring old fart anyway, and always has been. No personality at all and only a so so entertainer. Let sleeping old dogs lie.
JW (9/09/2008 10:54:58 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
GREAT GOOD ON YOU SIR CLIFF NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYBODY BUT YOU AN D YOUR HAPPINESS BEST WISHES
CHRISTIE ANNE (9/09/2008 5:24:52 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
To those of you out there (and below) who say that Sir Dick is not gay OR "so what if he is, at least he & his Priest boyfriend are not hurting anyone", you all probably said the same thing about GARY GLITTER ! ! !
Think About It ! ! ! ! ! (9/09/2008 5:01:16 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
God everyone knows he's gay, but who cares. He's not hurting anyone and its not my place to judge
Krissie (9/09/2008 12:57:57 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Hey Ruth, Madonna would probably eat Sir Cliff and his beau for breakfast if she could...so much for good christen values...
TJ (9/09/2008 11:46:25 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
like I said in Madonnas comments...... heres an idea!! Throw Sir Cliff to the lions... like the christians.... every bodies happy!!! Madonna could write a tribute song!!!
Ruth (9/09/2008 10:46:34 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Always the same weak arguments about gay people. If a person isnt a paedophile or violent then their sex / private life shouldn't be of interest to anyone. He's not hitting on any of you, IS HE???
human too (9/09/2008 10:37:12 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
So none of us have anything better to do than write comments about the life of a celebrity, which, even if it did have anything to do with us, we could not do a damned thing about. Leave him to his life and you live yours.
Jan (9/09/2008 10:32:30 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Who cares....
ruth (9/09/2008 10:25:52 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
OMG ANGELA IF HE`S STRAIGHT, I`M THE QUEEN....
POPE (9/09/2008 8:23:36 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Hey Angela...stop being ignorant...He,s been gay for like forever...He,s been the eternal Bachelor Boy for yonks...Open da Eyes...
RED (9/09/2008 7:09:26 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Cliff did not say he is gay. He only said that people who are gay should have the right to gay marriage. There is no solid proof he is gay.
Angela (9/09/2008 3:07:31 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
We all human sometime we do mistake were not perfect, but good citizen, loyal and committed something...you love in life"
Perfect" (9/09/2008 12:22:10 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
one gay singer with a whole bunch of gay priests to pick his perfect partner........omg yes of course they are gay
woop woop (8/09/2008 10:19:28 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I agree with Sheila whole hearterly. Cliff is a very good man and shame on all those people who say bad things about him. Haven't you got anything better to do with your time .I don't care if he is or isn't. I still love you cliff.CLIFF ROCKS
kaye (8/09/2008 7:11:35 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
never liked him, but eeerrr so what?
cat (8/09/2008 6:58:13 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Does it really matter. Cliff has bought great music and talent to so many people. Live and let live. Leave the Bachelor Boy alone Christine
Christine (8/09/2008 5:53:34 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I can't believe you all don't have something better to do ...I obviously don't...
jeff (8/09/2008 5:47:52 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I can't believe you all don't have something better to do ...I obviously don't...
jeff (8/09/2008 5:46:57 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
CLIFF and everyone needs to read LEVITICUS 20v13 and ROMANS Chp. 1. TOM
TOM (8/09/2008 4:59:33 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
So what, doesn't make any difference to the enjoyment Cliff has bought to so many people over so many years. Won't stop me going to his concerts, - when he comes back to South Oz that is. Good on ya Cliff, be happy and true to yourself.
Christine (8/09/2008 4:09:44 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
"KNEW IT ALL A LONG AND MAKES NO DIFFERENCE TO ME, GAY MEN CAN BE ALOT NICER THAN THE SO CALLED REAL MEN IN THE WORLD" WE CAN'T ALWAYS GET TO PICK WHO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH.LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT
Yippi! (8/09/2008 3:37:47 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Oh No! PAt!? You're going to feel the devil's pointy fork Pat! Stop it!! You're going to Hellll!!!
Jonno (8/09/2008 2:53:51 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
He has given us some great music over the years and for over 25years it has been knowledge that Cliff is gay. So what. There are millions of us out there and Im proud to be one of them.
PAT (8/09/2008 2:20:29 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I agree with Jo (5/9/08). If he wanted to maintain his privacy he shouldn't have written an autobiography. I guess the money he will make is more important to him.
Lorraine (8/09/2008 2:06:22 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I have to disagree with the comment," most people fear in themselves what they hate in others" that opinion is so overrated.
Kim (8/09/2008 1:15:42 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
met cliff in sydney in 90's & he's a down to earth gentleman. He loves tennis and deserves his private life be just that......private.
wayne (8/09/2008 8:41:12 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
lets not make the mistake of one in all in. Not all Catholic priests are peodophiles, it's impossible for one and priest is not a prerequosite. and it is the creative licence of reporter that has put gay slant on this live and let live.
sass (7/09/2008 2:15:14 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Unless you have walked over the same road in the same shoes under the same conditions; who are we to judge? "Judge not & you will not be judged". I have enough dirt on my own doorstep so who am I to judge another?
jb (7/09/2008 10:10:57 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I kissed a priest and he liked it.
Arundell (6/09/2008 9:57:00 PM) |
I should know too.
Quentrin (6/09/2008 9:56:07 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I supported Cliff as a support act . He was a great man, So what if he is Gay , he is still recognised for his entertaining ability. If he is a christian then he can be judged by someone else rather than us mere mortals.
Don G. (6/09/2008 6:22:29 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
For once I definitely agree with Quentie...He has summed it up to a T..
Jay (6/09/2008 6:46:06 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Who cares, it's private his life. He has brought me so much joy when I was a kid. I still remember his glamorous concert with the Shadows at Gdansk, Poland in 1967
Tadek (6/09/2008 12:15:27 AM) | Mark As Inappropriate
DR. PHIL DUNNO NUTHIN'.LOSER,LOSER,LOSER!!!
DR. PHILTHY (5/09/2008 11:31:09 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I deny all the allegations.
CLIFF (5/09/2008 11:26:08 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
If his life is none of our business then he shouldn't have made his private life public by writing a autobiography.
Jo (5/09/2008 10:18:31 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
He has given his millions of fans 50 years of enjoying his music. So what if he is gay. I adore him xx.
Jan (5/09/2008 10:06:16 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
GOOD ON YOU CLIFF - MORE POWER TO YOU!
SOPHIE (5/09/2008 9:55:00 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Who cares what side he bats for????? Cliff Richard is one of the longest lasting and greatest entertainers the world has ever seen. I wish much happiness to him. He has provided much happiness and joy to untold peoples lives
marketon (5/09/2008 9:11:56 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
All you do gooders that think this is wrong, well mind your own business. Whatever he does in his private life has nothing to do with anyone but him.
PAULINE (5/09/2008 8:42:36 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Good old Cliff. Very ordinary career except for Wired for Sound era. Summer Holiday and Bachelor Boy the wortht. Cliff has tried most things. His choices have never been good.
Barry (5/09/2008 8:37:03 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
let him be happy, he has made us happy. Great memories - attravtive prople are very often miss understood.
Heidi Hop (5/09/2008 8:29:23 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
let him be happy, he has made us happy. Great memories - attravtive prople are very often miss understood.
Heidi Hop (5/09/2008 8:27:41 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
leave Cliff alone,he has brought so much joy both with his films and his music,and thats all we need to know.
audrey (5/09/2008 7:40:00 PM) |
What is wrong with you all you wouldn't be talking like this if he hadn't said anything. He is a fabulous Entertainer and his private life is his own leave him be.
Jenny (5/09/2008 7:07:54 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Sure he,s a good man, but why now? Me thinks he has something to sell...its the usual scenerio.
Vi (5/09/2008 6:51:13 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
He is a great man and a wonderful role model. Get your mind out of the gutter and leave him alone.
Sue (5/09/2008 6:40:53 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
He is a great man and a wonderful role model. Get your mind out of the gutter and leave him alone.
Sue (5/09/2008 6:39:34 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
they just MIGHT be two compatible people who would rather live together than be alone? I will give him the benifit of the doubt anyway.It's none of my busines or yours!
Mumbo (5/09/2008 6:08:05 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Why does sex have to raise it's ugly head? it is'nt just Christians who object : if he is or if he isn't? Maybe he's just not strong enough to take on a woman;:doesn't mean men are easier does it?Or does it?
Bluewren (5/09/2008 6:02:39 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Who said that "Don't care what he does as long as he doesn't make it compulsory! " I think I love you; you gave me a great laugh and so beautifully sane. ROFL.
Katelyne (5/09/2008 5:46:08 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
BLACK SABBATH!!!
Danzo (5/09/2008 5:22:00 PM) |
As usual all the media can only dwell on his private life! They fogot to mention that he is also celebrating his 50th year in the music industry and still going strong!!
l....... (5/09/2008 5:18:14 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
quentin arundle very appropriate name , arundle ,should be committed there , too much time on his hands as long as they are not doing it in public who but quentin cares . NOBODY
hannah (5/09/2008 5:09:52 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
quetin needs a hobbie why do you care so much its not like its your dad or brother get over.... shows how mature you are
d........ (5/09/2008 4:59:28 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
A other Christian falls in the trap ,God is only love
JAN (5/09/2008 4:58:00 PM) |
For crying out loud - leave them alone and get a life of your own.
ALAN (5/09/2008 4:43:24 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
At least he has the guts of his convictions, and it doesnt mean he's gay either!
paranthropus (5/09/2008 4:34:52 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Just goes to show that many, many years ago he told us all about his true feelings in his songs. Try starting with bachelor boy. Anyway its his choice how he lives not ours. If you don't like his preferences, don't buy his music
greg (5/09/2008 4:32:24 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Quentin hows that small mind working for ya? most people fear in themselves what they hate in others
dr phil (5/09/2008 3:43:20 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Quentin hows that small mind working for ya? most people fear in themselves what they hate in others
dr phil (5/09/2008 3:42:00 PM) |
I don't care who or what he's up to, as long as he doesn't try and make any of this sort of thing compulsory
Michael (5/09/2008 3:34:15 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Anyone who cares what he does in his private life should get a life!
maysie (5/09/2008 3:31:49 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
I thought we were supposed to love one another, without conditions. Where's the Christian Charity in condemning same sex attracted people. Accept love where you find it.
Framton (5/09/2008 3:07:00 PM) |
THOSE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE. LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE WHAT EVER FORM THAT MAY COME IN.
GLEN (5/09/2008 3:02:00 PM) |
Just another fake christian. Making the rules up to suit their own ends.
Quentin Arundel (5/09/2008 2:59:00 PM) |
Sir Cliff has been and is a great entertainer. I recall seeing him in a Movie, Summer Holiday around 1961. The words of theme song "We're all going on a summer holiday" rang through my ears for the next 12 months.
Gary Drewsen (5/09/2008 2:45:26 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Who cares if he's gay or not. The number of yrs he's been around shows how much his fans love him.
Julie (5/09/2008 2:06:29 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
We are all God's children. All different and beautiful in our own way. As long as we are true to ourselves and others What right do we have to judge? Good on you Cliff for living your life as you choose. It's no-ones business but your own.
Michele (5/09/2008 1:57:00 PM) |
He never said he was gay compaion could still be only a friend do not agree with same sex relationships at all but one things for sure we all face our maker then its up to him
Andrew (5/09/2008 1:54:28 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
Makes one wonder about whether Richards 'engaged brain before opening mouth'. No one ever said that loving relationships were soley to be between men and women. Loving someone per se has nothing to do with sexual intercourse.
John (5/09/2008 1:43:03 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
GOOD ON HIM
PETER (5/09/2008 1:33:00 PM) | Mark As Inappropriate
what anyone chooses to do in their personal lives should be left to them. Just because he is a public person doesn't mean he should have to answer to the world for what he does in his private life. Good for himX
Sheila (5/09/2008 1:05:00 PM) |
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